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Tools for female-led relationships to thrive — better communication, lighter mental load, and a shared place for the agreements you live by.
Pick the tools that fit your relationship
The agreements you live by. Adopt from the library or write your own; either of you can flag a violation.
A shared, honest record of broken rules and missed assignments, until they’re resolved.
Chores on a rhythm and one-off tasks with deadlines. Late or missed items become offenses automatically.
Share how you’re feeling right now, so your partner always knows the weather.
The Dom assigns consequences for offenses — or at will. Completing one clears the offenses it covers.
Write down the wonderful things your partner does. Small thank-yous, kept forever.
Ask each other anything. Answers stay hidden until you’ve both answered — then both reveal.
A shared journal: each of you writes, both of you read.
His releases, every one logged and dated — authorized or not. Unauthorized ones become offenses.
Every one of hers is worth celebrating — logged, counted, and admired.
Personal habits with a target — 3× a week at the gym, a daily page of reading. Missing the target counts.
Built for couples who choose structure together. Private by design — your relationship's data is visible to the two of you and no one else.